By Gretchen Ditto, Image & Personal Branding Advisor
$6.9 Billion will be spent on wedding gifts this year, according to The Wedding Report! Wowzers! With that much money spent, there have to be rules…
Ditto & Co’s Wedding Gift Guidelines
- Always try to get the couple something off the registry or give good, ol’ cash-o-la. Unless, of course, you know the bride and groom well and you’re known to give them something special for their wedding that they are expecting. If this isn’t the case, stick to the registry.
- You have up to a year after the wedding to give the newlyweds your gift, but the most ideal time to gift is just before, during, or after the wedding. Oh no! I just realized I may have forgotten to give someone their gift… better late than never!
- As a recent bride, I never the extra work required to haul gifts around— I’ve vowed to mail all gifts from now on. No more lugging them into the reception.
- There’s no such thing as an inappropriate amount of money. The fact that you gave it will suffice (as mom used to say, it’s the thought that counts!) Don’t go broke, but don’t go cheap either.
- Don’t inquire about your gift afterwards.
- Include a gift receipt.
- Don’t hesitate to go in on a big gift with a group of friends or others—it’s these larger purchases that make a huge difference to a new couple.
- Send a gift even if you don’t attend the wedding.
Keep these easy-as-wedding-cake pointers top of mind and you’ll be sure to please the bride and groom without the hindrance of heavy lifting, duplicate presents, or awkward moments.












